Thursday, April 16, 2015

RE: 3-D Lashes, Jamberry & Other Ways to Lose Facebook Friends by @ScaryMommy

I woke up this morning and looked on twitter, which I normally don't do. And I wish I hadn't today. It really put a damper on my entire day.

A twitter friend of mine posted how Facebook parties for Jamberry and Younique need to stop! That she is sick of being invited to them and isn't interested. She also posted this article from @scarymommy 3D Lashes, Jamberry & Other Ways to Lose Facebook Friends. I responded that these Direct Sales Companies are built to use Facebook as a platform and if it weren't for those parties, I would have no business.

Not to blast this girl, I think she's quite lovely, but she is in her 20s and is fortunate enough to have a great career in Advertisting, and I will assume makes much more money than me. I am in my 30s and work hard to make ends meet. I am a Daycare Teacher, and my husband is a Police Officer. We work hard at very important jobs that impact many people, yet we get paid hardly anything. I started selling Younique in 2014 as a way to supplement our income, and to help us get by. So, without these Facebook groups and parties, I wouldn't be getting the sales that I am.

Facebook has become a huge platform for people to advertise their business. Weather it is my Toddlers and Tutus page, Local Clothing Companies, Target, Nieman Marcus, and every other company ever. So, why not Younique or Jamberry?!? Do the clients my twitter friend advertises for ever say "I wish she wouldn't advertise to me!" Doubt it. Doesn't really make sense.

Facebook is great for Younique for many ways:

  • You can tell your friends you may not see in person all the time about how awesome the products are!
  • You can show pictures of you showing off the makeup and skincare, especially for people you don't see often!
  • You can list deals, in Younique they're called Kudos
  • You can do giveaways! (really, who hates those?!?!?!)
  • You can engage so many people at one time!
  • You can easily find a Presenter to purchase from
  • and so much more!
I've had a lot of people be in my group for months, and then finally purchase, and LOVE the product. IT just took them awhile to take the plunge. That's why I keep posting and trying to reach out. I want people to try and love this stuff! BUT if you aren't interested in being in the group you were added to and you aren't interested in the products:

LEAVE THE GROUP! It's that simple. LEAVE. THE. GROUP. 

No need to bash Younique, or Jamberry, or Tastefully Simple, or whatever.

At Younique, our motto is to Uplift, Empower and Validate women. You aren't doing that by bashing these women who are trying to meet their goals, pay their bills, succeed. As women, we really need to stand together and boost eachother. If we don't, who will?!?

But if you are interested in all the Younique hype, go to!

Friday, January 2, 2015

My Top 15 Lifetime (or made for TV) Movies

If you know me, you know I love Lifetime Movies. Here are my top 15, in order:

Yasmine Bleeth, can't go wrong. Gets in trouble, has a scarred face, gets surgery, and becomes amazeballs.

Binge drinking. Reminds me of college, Except none of my friends actually died at a frat house.

 Married man has an affair with a teenage cheerleader. What can go wrong?!?!

Soleil Moon Frye and Ari Meyers? Punky Brewster and Emma from Kate and Allie?! They get involved with the same bad teenager. youtube

This trailer does nothing for the movie. It's actually a really a "slap you in the face" movie about eating disorders. she finds a "thinspiration" website and spirals. I cried. youtube

Teenagers have no idea how STDs spread, and everyone gets mouth syphilis    youtube 

9. She Cried No (freshman fall)

DJ Tanner Lifetime movies are always a favorite of mine. Zack Morris is in it too. Win in my book! youtube

Heir to the Max Factor fortune. Loved giving Liquid X to girls. Captured by Dog the Bounty Hunter. True Story!   

If the name doesn't sum it up, I don't know what will. but it's amazing. and Based off of a true story.

Shannen Doherty is stalked and befriended by someone she beat in a beauty pageant 15 years ago. 

Hilary Swank, Sarah Chalke, Mark Paul Gosselaar, Jenna Von Oy, the cast can't get better! Pledging sororities can be deadly!  youtube 

A classic Tori Spelling Lifetime Movie. Controlling mother, controlling boyfriend. youtube

My favorite Eating Disorder Lifetime movie ever. Lexi Anorexi! 2 bffs struggle with anorexia and bulimia. youtube

Kevin Arnold notices DJ Tanner, sparks fly, fists fly, it's all around awesome. 

Tiffany-Amber Thiessen  In all her Glory. Brian Austin Green, too! She gets attacked by a popular guy, then everyone turns on her to protect him. Will she prevail?!? youtube 

What are your favorites? Comment below!!!

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Buzzfeed Wedding Quiz

Based on the other posts in this blog, I think Buzzfeed hit the nail on the head with my dream wedding!

What Kind Of Wedding Should You Have?

  1. You got: a very traditional wedding in a church.
    Flickr: 44124348109@N01 / Creative Commons

    Whether your style is glamorous or modest, you like to keep things traditional and by-the-book. You’ve always had a very clear idea of what you wanted your wedding to look like ever since you were ~this big~ and you won’t be straying from that one bit.

Monday, March 3, 2014

Younique 3D Fiber Lash Mascara

I am SO EXCITED to share with you my new found love! I bought this mascara only a week ago and the first time I tried it I was SOLD on the 3D Fiber Mascara! (aka Lash Crack!!!) I have never been good at putting on false lashes and regular mascara just doesn't do it for me. A friend turned me on to 3D Fiber Mascara and not only am I totally ADDICTED but this stuff is flying off the shelves!!!! 

This stuff actually adds length to your lashes. Not like regular mascara. There are little natural fibers that you apply after the transplanting gel and then you seal it with the final coat of transplanting gel. You will literally see the length of your lashes grow as you apply it. It stays on all day (no flaking or smudging EVER!) and is water resistant. This is the best stuff I've ever come across!

It is SO IMPORTANT to me that 3D Mascara is:

**naturally based makeup, paraben free, carcinogen free, free of harmful chemicals, cruelty free, hypoallergenic! I have sensitive skin and eyes, so this is important.

**$29 and it lasts for 2-3 months (which is just as long as all the other mascara's on the market)

**Safe for contact wearers, water resistant and EASY to come off with eye make up remover or face wash and water.

**No Auto-ship or memberships required. Try it, love it, order it again when you run out based on Your schedule.

Here's the thing Ladies, we ALL buy mascara! We are constantly searching for the mascara that volumizes, lengthens and doesn't flake or smudge! This is IT!!!! This is a FOREVER MASCARA!!

How does it work? It goes on similar to regular mascara, except you have 2 wands. 
1. is the Transplanting gel
2. is the Fibers

You can start with a base of your regular mascara, for a fuller, thicker look, or just apply this to bare lashes.

Start by having both tubes open in your hand, so you can apply Fibers before the Gel dries.

Then there are 3 steps:

1. put on Transplanting Gel, as you would mascara
2. before the gel dries, apply the fibers (again, like mascara). TIP: don't get too close to your eye, you dont want fibers falling off during application and getting in your eye!
3. seal the Fibers with another coat of Transplanting Gel.

Repeat steps 1-3 as many times as you want, to achieve your desired look. 

It's that easy!

The results are amazing.

 and some of My Own Personal Results (as you can see, I have puny eyelashes!)

want to order? or find out more? 

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

"When are you going to have kids?"

While single, you're always asked "why are you single?". When dating, you're always asked "when are you getting engaged?". When engaged, everyone wants to know "when is the wedding?" (and "am I invited?!"). When married, everyone asks "when are you going to have a baby?".

Why can't people just be allowed to do these things when they're physically/emotionally ready? And with the right person?

I have been married for just about 5 months, and I'm really sick of the "why aren't you pregnant?" question. I've tried to be polite, but I'm about at my breaking point. Even people who I've explained why I'm not, still ask me all the time. Guess what, it's not your business.

Some couples are waiting until they have a home big enough; others wait until they have some extra money (babies are expensive, yo!); some couples try and try and just can not get pregnant, or if they do, are having problems staying pregnant; and some couples just do not want to have children!

The decision to have a child is a personal one between both parents. It's not something that should be taken lightly or jumped into.

And if I do get pregnant, you don't need to ask, you will all know when Joe and I know there is a healthy baby growing inside of my belly.

*end rant*

Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Bridal Party (Mug Shots)

My new husband is a Police Officer. We had an idea for photos, but weren't sure it would all pan out, so we kept it a secret just in case. After hitting our other photo spots, Joe called up his work to see if we would be able to swing by. Let me tell ya, the bridal party was definitely confused when we showed up at the Police Station. And what happened there was awesome:

The new Mr and Mrs! 
 bride- Maura
 groom- Joe
 Maid of Honor- Shannon
 Best Man- Kevin
 Bridesmaid: Julie
 Groomsman- Dan
Bridesmaid- Laurel
 Groomsman- Ryan
 Bridesmaid- Julia
 Groomsman- Dave
 Bridesmaid- Molly
 Groomsman- Michael
 Bridesmaid- Becky
Groomsman- Brian

Monday, January 27, 2014


Need some ideas of good vendors in the Cleveland area? I loved (most of) mine!

Church: Saint Patrick's Catholic Church on Bridge Avenue in Ohio City, Cleveland. The church has so much history, and is unbelievably beautiful. And the Priest? He is the most adorable old man, EVER! He gives me high-fives every Sunday at mass, and that makes me very happy. I'm easy to impress.

Venue/Catering: The West Side Irish American Club in Olmsted Township. They have their own catering, on site, PT O'Malley Catering. Our families have been members of the club forever, and know the O'Malley's. They are easy to work with, and the food was SO good!

It even worked as a gorgeous place for pictures. We used the gazebo, the bridge over the lake, and the Irish Cottage on grounds for some awesome snaps.

Photographer: people thought I'd use Tamarie Photography, but I didn't (sometimes I wish I had). I didn't want Tami working the wedding, I wanted her joining me in the fun, so I invited her as a guest instead.

I used Jerry Clay, we found him at the Bridal Show at the IX Center. My mom liked him, his business card was on a poker chip, and he wasn't some in your face, obnoxious dude trying to upsell us on nonsense. He's been around for a long time, and doesn't mess around with unnecessary frills. On our wedding day, my bridesmaid Julie told me that Jerry was her Senior Portrait Photographer, and our Groomsmen Ryan said they had Jerry for their wedding. Later, I found out that 2 weeks prior, my friend Soledad had used him for her Wedding, too!

However, I am still waiting to hear from him about my 400 free prints I was supposed to receive for singing up at the Bridal Show, and for really any information on how to purchase the rights to my pictures.

Photobooth: I was going to go through Photobooth Cleveland, and that fell through, after getting uber weird vibes from the owner I had spoken with. He had also been pretty rude to me. I don't know that he is always like that and don't want to post bad things, but I decided to walk away. And I'm glad I did.

I found a way better deal with First Choice Photobooths. The owner Stefan always got back to me immediately, he sent me a ton of proofs of how the strips would be designed, and made adjustments to work with my pickiness with no problems. His staff member, Mike, who worked the wedding was friendly, the price was right, and we got a souvenir photo book with copies of all of the pictures.

Cake: As I mentioned before, Joe and I are not cake eaters. Or desserts in general. However, I'm a sucker for tradition and wanted to have a cake and do the cutting. I went to a Bridal Show and met Sue Becker, from Becker's Donuts. She had some mock cakes with her and books full of pictures. While browsing one of the books, I saw exactly what I had been picturing in my mind. I didn't do a tasting, I picked a simple cake, and had some sheet cakes in the back to serve.

Flowers: Flowers. We went back and forth on flowers for months. I mentioned to my mom how Costco has nice flowers for cheap, and how a friend of mine made her own bouquets for her maids. My mom decided that would be a great idea and would save some money. However, when we got down to the wire, there's so much you need to do, and we decided it was time to find a florist. However, we did still order Costco flowers and my mom put together the centerpieces the day of the wedding (which is one reason putting together bouquets would be just too much). So, with only 4 weeks until the wedding, we try to find somebody who will make 7 bouquets. We had a few people tell us no way, some becuase it was just too short notice, and one major shop said no because they had one other wedding that day. One other wedding?

We went to Silver Fox Florist in Westlake and they were more than accomodating. They had 6 weddings going on the day we stopped in to talk to them, and had no problems helping us out. The day of my wedding, they had 7 other weddings, they delivered on time, and the flowers were beautiful.

DJ: Before we were even engaged, Joe and I had decided we would have Gus, owner of Kidd Productions, DJ our wedding. Joe knows Gus socially from being around Westpark, and I have known him since 2004 when we were both servers at Alfonso's Tuscan Grille in Westpark. Gus has an energy like none other, he knows what to play to get people on the dance floor, and gets involved in order to keep people out there. Best of all, he kept reminding me that it was all about what Joe and Maura wanted, not anybody else. Some of you may remember me worrying that he wouldn't show because he didn't give us a contract, but trust me, he's legit and professional. I did get my contract and he did everything that was asked of him.
(picture from my DJ's birthday party January 2014)

Live Music: My nephew (who was 12 at the time) and a few of his friends he plays Traditional Irish Music with, decided to start a band. Let me tell you, they rock! Just yesterday, they were invited to be on a radio program, not too shabby for some teenagers loving their irish roots! The band is named The Roundabouts and they are available for booking, check out the facebook page I have linked. Joining the band for a few songs, were Joe's 2 brothers, and Mr Al O'Leary on accordian. They played cocktail hour, and my nephew played the voilin before the wedding ceremony.

Chair Covers: we used The Cover Girlz located out of Avon. They are familiar with my venue, they are easy to work with, and they had a lot of options.

Hair and Makeup: The day I got engaged, I facebook messaged my friend from all the way back in Junior High, Jessica Miller, and told her I'd be in need of her makeup services sometime in September. She was actually the first vendor booked! Jessica works for Bobbi Brown, and is a wedding makeup artist with Kajal by Kimberly.  

All of the hair girls I know, work at salons, and wouldn't have a Saturday off to come do hair for 6 people, so I asked Jessica if she had any recommendations. She did! She suggested her friend and neighbor, Brittany Wise, who not long ago, started her wedding hair career.

This was awesome, because we didn't have to worry about making it to appointments and rushing around all morning. The bridesmaids came to my parents house, as well as Jessica and Brittany, and we all hung out, had mimosas, and got pampered!

Have any questions about my vendors? Ask away!